My not-so-l'il sis
I'm a little worried for my sis. I see the way she is handling her relationship of 3 years and its worrying.. Mum and I reckon she's starting to waver a little, and worst of it all she shows it explicitly, and a tad cruelly.
Over the long weekend, with the public holidays like Deepavali and Hari Raya, this l'il sis of mine popped over to KL with this girl friend of her plus 4 other guys she doesn't know. Honestly, I know she's not intending to paint the towns of KL too red or create havoc. But strange thing is, when her bf wanted to accompany her on the trip, she refused him flatly and in a not-so-nice way. He was obviously not too pleased about that.
Then today, she was practically uncontactable. Her bf popped by our place and waited 2 hours for her to come home. Mum rang her and sms her too, but it was apparent that her phone was either on silent mode or she is plainly refusing to answer the call. Bf of hers been smsing her the whole evening as well. Having waited 2 hours plus for a gf who is not home and uncontactable, he bade us goodbye and I could tell he was a little upset... Didn't take a smart aleck to figure that out. Everyone at home could feel his sad vibes. Poor guy.
Finally, my sister decided to call us back. She was in a movie with someone. Hmm. If you had thought I was feisty and difficult, you haven't met my sis. She's worse. Mum knew better than to question her who that 'someone' is. Anyway, she just told my sis to call her bf back. Don't know if she did.
I hope I am worrying over nothing really. But methinks my sister is going through the uncertainty patch in her relationship rollercoaster ride now. And my gut feeling tells me there are other guys hot in their pursuit for her, and she's got issues/questions, many many of them. And mum actually spoke to this other guyfriend of her recently who asked for my mum's permission to start 'chasing' my sis.. (???) Weird!
Oh well, I can't tell her what to do but I do hope she be mature and think it through. Whatever it is, I just want her to be happy.
Over the long weekend, with the public holidays like Deepavali and Hari Raya, this l'il sis of mine popped over to KL with this girl friend of her plus 4 other guys she doesn't know. Honestly, I know she's not intending to paint the towns of KL too red or create havoc. But strange thing is, when her bf wanted to accompany her on the trip, she refused him flatly and in a not-so-nice way. He was obviously not too pleased about that.
Then today, she was practically uncontactable. Her bf popped by our place and waited 2 hours for her to come home. Mum rang her and sms her too, but it was apparent that her phone was either on silent mode or she is plainly refusing to answer the call. Bf of hers been smsing her the whole evening as well. Having waited 2 hours plus for a gf who is not home and uncontactable, he bade us goodbye and I could tell he was a little upset... Didn't take a smart aleck to figure that out. Everyone at home could feel his sad vibes. Poor guy.
Finally, my sister decided to call us back. She was in a movie with someone. Hmm. If you had thought I was feisty and difficult, you haven't met my sis. She's worse. Mum knew better than to question her who that 'someone' is. Anyway, she just told my sis to call her bf back. Don't know if she did.
I hope I am worrying over nothing really. But methinks my sister is going through the uncertainty patch in her relationship rollercoaster ride now. And my gut feeling tells me there are other guys hot in their pursuit for her, and she's got issues/questions, many many of them. And mum actually spoke to this other guyfriend of her recently who asked for my mum's permission to start 'chasing' my sis.. (???) Weird!
Oh well, I can't tell her what to do but I do hope she be mature and think it through. Whatever it is, I just want her to be happy.
posted by Shazza at Thursday, November 18, 2004
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