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C'est la vie: July 2005

Friday, July 29, 2005

Yet another

I have another interview this coming Monday. Should I be feeling excited about it?

Sigh, I don't know - I am having mixed emotions and thoughts.

We'll see.

And so glad tomorrow is the last workday of the week! I am so so so yearning for the weekend!

Thursday, July 28, 2005

Growing up

Funny how I had always yearned to be officially labelled an adult when I was in my adolescent years. Back then, being an adult seems to be a really cool and in thing. The sweet attractive scent of freedom, freedom to do what I want, when I want and how I want. The promise of independence - not having to report to my parents what time I will be home and who I am hanging out with. And ultimately, not having to depend on my parents for pocket money.

No matter how I saw it, being an adult was all good and no bad! (so I thought?)

And so I eagerly anticipated. And the rest was history.

I guess there was never quite a defining moment when one really turns into an adult, or feel adult-ish. I know I don't. I cannot pinpoint a moment in my life when I felt I had evolved into the adult I am now. My 21st birthday? Nah, didn't felt quite so. Afterall I was still dependent on my parents for financial aid since I was still a university undergrad back then.

Well I suppose it really depends how one defines 'being an adult' ..

My mum always tells us until we got married and have our own family, she will always consider us her kiddos. And real independence will only be granted when we have a "Mrs" to our name.

Huh? Really mum? What if I never become a Mrs?

Adulthood comes with responsibilities. The adult is expected to be mature and sensible, everything a child is not, and is entitled to.

Childlike innocence, being naive and gullible, being dependent etc.
Do we really give up our "child-rights" the moment we waltzed into adulthood?

The irony of it all. I wished I had cherished my child-like years of privilege more. I wished I had 'utilised' my "child-rights" more.

Lesson learnt?

Always cherish and enjoy the stage of life I am currently at. The next stage of life will come in due course. I just have to enjoy the present and the transition as it comes along!

That being said, what's the next stage of life? Being a Mrs?

Wednesday, July 27, 2005

Random words

Holiday. Conversation. Phone. Shampoo. Taxi. French. Rose. Sleep. Pig. Money. 4D. Television. Fidelity. Love. Betrayal. Work. Satisfaction. Bonus. Kaya. Toast. Milo. Soya Bean. Colours. Mattress. SkII, Estee Lauder. Apple. Sour. G2000. Bangkok. Hong Kong. Lock & Lock. Piglet. Alarm clock. Chiropractor. Series 7. Study. Drive. Ship. Fan. Clear Folder. In Tray. Laptop. Business. Leisure. Hobbies. Why. Hate. Wood. Iron. Golf. Swing. Rhythm. Friday. Hours. Happy. Mango. Scissors. Gucci. VCDS. Keys. Curtains. University. Medicine. Leave. Winter. Stay. Summer. Remote Control. Adam Sandler. Fried Rice. Solero. Dim Sum Dollies. Durians. Cough syrup. Japanese. Ribena. Curry Noodles. Sore Throat. Purple. Wardrobe. Clothes. Iron. Calcium.

(None of the above would actually make sense. Just random words/ thoughts popping up on my mind now.. its actually quite therapeutic in a funny sorta way.. try it)

Tuesday, July 26, 2005

J'ai besoin d'un nouveau sac

I know I know..

I have too many bags but somehow I am still in search of the perfect bag for work.

One that's black, sleek and classic looking .. and yet roomy enough for the junk that I carry. But it cannot be too big cause though I am not short, I aint that big frame enough to don a big bag..
(roomy and cannot be too big - sounds like a weird thing to ask for.. )

The current braun buffel one can no longer accomodate my average rubbish..

My long wallet, keys, handphone, lipstick, staff pass, cardholders, Palm pilot, ear phones, sunglasses, spectacles, the occassional book I carry, tissue paper, facial oil blotters , and the mp3 player (that I am hoping to get soon) etc etc

Carry less things to work? Sure I can but I would much rather prefer to get a new bag! :)

Being a woman is never easy, we I simply need the right bag in its right shade and size for any and every occasion! And oh, the bag and the shoe must always match!!

Its an obsession that I think the guys around me have given up trying to comprehend!

Its the little things in life

Its amazing how a change of shampoo can instantly lifts my spirits up! :D

I was sick of using the family shampoo that mum bought for everyone, so at dinner time today I waltzed into the supermarket and got myself new shampoo and conditionner!

And I am liking how this new brand of shampoo is smelling. Its not quite fruity or floral, but its got a nice refreshing smell! Nice, nice!!

(I just came out of the shower and I have been sniffing my hair non-stop since! Haha)

Feeling so relaxed now after the warm shower. Just chilling out in the room with nice soothing music playing in the background & feeding my internet addiction on Toshi* .. can my life get any better? Ohh-kay, maybe it would be nice-r with a freezing solero popsicle now!

C'est la vie! :)

*Toshi is the name of my laptop. You can pretty much guess what brand it is! Heh

Sunday, July 24, 2005

Sunday golf

I am aching all over from golf after a good 3 hours at the range.

Lesson with the official coach today was pretty useless. My posture and swings were all wrong and he didn't really correct me. Felt as though he was more interested in getting the lesson over and done with & didn't really pay too much attention even though we aren't even standing or holding the clubs correctly. Its the second last lesson today and I seriously doubt anyone of us in the class can now play safely at the course.

And he put us on the 3 wood today when we can't even manage the irons quite effectively yet?! We were all struggling so badly.

Sheesh. Felt seriously demoralised after the lesson.

Post-lesson mortem with my unofficial coach aka the BF seems a lot more effective. He put me on swinging drills and corrected my posture. In the hour or so that I was being drilled 'mercilessly' by him, I ended up with a smoother swing that was not too overly controlled & my spirit soared when I managed to hit some lovely balls and got some nods of approvals.. Heh

And it felt oh-so-good! :)

Tax Payable

"Thank you for your contribution towards nation building"

Right. .. ... ....

Picture the look of horror on my face when I received my IRA (Inland revenue Authority of Singapore) Notice of Assessment in the mail today.

Ok after not having to pay tax in the last 2 years, I am now officially a contributing taxpayer.

Ouch ouch ouch!! $$$

I'm so going to pay by instalments, paying the full tax in a lump sum is going to pinch real bad. Bleh.

***

Sweetie and I went out on a date this evening! :)

It was especially nice since we are usually hibernating at home on a Saturday evening. And it was swell doing something different for a change.

We met up after my French class, did some quick shopping and look around for his golf stuff. Grabbed some quick dinner and caught "Fantastic 4" at the cinema.

The show was not too bad though I was expecting more action!! The battle between the good and the evil towards the end was quite a wet blanket.. I went "huh, only like that??" when the bad guy (I forgot his name, the Australian actor who was Phoebe's lover in Charmed") was frozen / solidified and posing in a funny manner. Anti-climax, I tell ya.

Oh, and the ending is so geared for a sequel. Akan Datang, methinks.

Our muddy mudpie at Coffee Club after the movie was a sweet wrap up of the wonderful wonderful evening! :)

I am feeling so loved and fuzzy.

***

Yawns. I can hardly keep my eyes open anymore. Think I shall call it a night and get some sleep.

And yikes, the notice of assessment is staring at me.

"Thank you for your contribution towards nation building!" - It gloats.

Friday, July 22, 2005

Je veux Je veux!!

1) The New Harry Potter Book
2) A Holiday!!!

I'll probably head down to Borders to get it this Sunday.. or should I wait till the craze dies off and when prices are slashed down?

The Order of the Phoenix is selling at $9 hardcover now, overstocked from the last round.

Buy now or wait? Well, since I still have $60 worth of borders voucher left, maybe the former. Heh :D

I should start re-reading the previous Harry Potter Books now, recap recap!!

Holiday holiday. Not just a "Je veux" now, more of a "J'ai besoin" really... I'm dying of overwork and am seriously burning out.....

The sweetie is on study leave now preparing for an important certification exam. When he's done with it, we'll probably plan a short getaway in August. Maybe a week or so in Sydney or nearby!

Sigh, I can hardly wait!

Thursday, July 21, 2005

Back to work

Ok 2 days away from work wasn't all that bad. I managed to clear all my emails in an hour.

Had a new colleague join my team and as much as I would love to coach her, my voicebox just didn't want to project too much. My voice sounded like a rusty engine badly needing to be oiled and lubricated.

Terrible feeling not being able to talk as freely I tell you. And its worse to have to breathe and talk through the mouth simultaneously..

I went for my weekly chiropractic session today. Wednesdays with Tamara, I call it.

My chiro Tamara is a real cool person. She is her mid 30s though you can't really tell and in that 20-30 mins session we have together each week, we'll just talk about anything and everything in the world (though it was mostly her talking and I doing the listening today). These days my back seems to be getting better so she's nagging less!

Ok I have to go rest. Still not fully recovered and I hate my antibiotics! They taste funny but I have no choice but to finish the whole course of it.

Darn, I feel like a kid all over again! ;) I even asked my mum for a sweet before taking those medicine!

Tuesday, July 19, 2005

Recovering

2 days of self hibernating at home really does it for me!

I think I slept most part of the days away. Only waking up to take my meals and watch television.

So boring!!!

I am feeling better now though I still sound nasal. Can't wait to get back to work.

The poor baby probably caught my virus. He's fallen ill today too. Sigh hope he recovers soon!!

Monday, July 18, 2005

Malade

I've been sick the whole weekend :(

Flu, throat inflamation and cough - the whole package..

Bleh.

Feeling a little drowsy from all the medication and my taste buds have gone all wrong. Nothing seems to taste nice!

Doctor put me on 2 days' medical leave. Its only day 1 today and I am bored stiff. All the lying in bed is also making me feel lerthargic.

I wanna get well soon!

Saturday, July 16, 2005

The interview

I was super duper early for it. I basically arrived there 1 hour earlier.

Good thing I did. Because my stomach played up on me and went all queasy. Must be the chocolate milk I drank. I can't seem to take milk early in the morning on an empty stomach, anymore. Each time I did, I head right to the toilet. Sigh.

So.. yes the interview.

It went on for 50 minutes. Don't know if its good or bad - they basically asked every question you can possibly think of. And man, this job sounds real challenging! Similar scope but far greater heights than what I am currently doing. I wonder if I am up to it.

Anyway, they will be interviewing other candidates. We'll keep in touch, they say. And yes we'll see if it is God willing.

**

A little funny incident took place before I went to the interview, whilst I was loitering around passing time. I wanted to arrive 15 minutes early for the interview, not 45 mins!

I was mucking around with my cell phone texting away, when this guy looked at me intently. He had the "Do I know you from somewhere" look on his face.

"Hi, are you from XXX? "
"Erm, yes.... sorry do I know you?"
"yeah! well I am from XXX too"
"Oh ok.. hi.. "

Then I went back to finish typing my test message. Yes, very rude I know. And that guy kept looking at me again..

"Hi, I'm Leslie"
"Oh hello, I am Sharon"

Then we shook hands. His friend came and we said bye. No idea how he know me, since we work in different buildings. He must have seen me around somewhere, I guess.

"Wah you so famous ah!!" Dear commented when I told him the incident..

Later, I asked the people at work if they know a Leslie.

First thing my "brother" at work said was - "Ok, we'll go tell the guy you are taken.. "

Hahaha!!

Friday, July 15, 2005

Good morning

I am up very early today and I feel like a zombie now. Yawns.

To everyone who has sent me their encouragement and prayers, my sincere thanks.

Ok time to go get ready. Will post details of the interview later.

Thursday, July 14, 2005

Le Mercredi

I never knew lingerie shopping is that therapeutic till today.

I went into this quaint shop at the shopping centre near my place. It was the afternoon and I was the only customer in that shop. So the saleslady patiently showed me all the designs and shoved me into the changing room to try them on.

I must have spent at least 1 hour in that shop.

End result, I bought 4 sets of matching bras and panties! They are so pretty, colourful and lacey; very different from the normal beige and black ones I normally get.

Putting on and seeing myself in the mirror makes me tres happy already, never the rest of the world can't see & appreciate it :)

**

Then I trotted to the bookstore to get some files and I also bought a 3 drawer organiser in the process.

And now I'm wonderfully organised with my "make-me-pretty" tools.

Drawer 1 - all the hair accessories, and brooches in the red box



Drawer 2 - Earrings! My fave accessories!!



Drawer 3 - The other accessories!



So organised right! I wonder how long they will stay this way! ;)

Wednesday, July 13, 2005

je suis aimé

Something's bugging me.

Well, I am going for an interview with an investment bank this Friday. The recruiter called me today and said the bank is eager to meet up with me either tomorrow or Friday. I chose the latter cause I figured I needed some time to recover from my headache (feels more like a migrane now) and I wanted to sort out my portfolio, i.e my certificates etc.

I guess I should be feeling happy, but I can't quite put a finger to why I am not exactly feeling that way. Instead the feeling of apprehension looms over me.

Am I being silly wanting to give up my current job, with the attractive night shift allowance? Sure the money is good, but look at my health? I am like a walking zombie these days? I am constantly lerthagic and lackadaisical. But what if the next job sucks? And to leave now means foregoing my variable bonus which I will receive in Feb next year.. At least its July now. You aren't really losing out much. Money isn't everything you know.

*Ah.... banishes those thoughts away*

Right, I'll get through Friday's interview first before I worry about the next step. One baby step at a time, I must remind myself.

**

I just finished reading "Five People You Meet in Heaven" By Mitch Albom. Very gripping.

I had people telling me they wept over the books by Mitch Albom, namely the above and Tuesdays with Morrie. I read them both and I didn't shed a tear? Well, I am touched by the books but they don't tug my heartstring hard enough for those tears to start rolling down. In some juncture, I felt a little desensitised and even oblivious.

Have I become hardened or what?

If you have read those two books, share with me your experiences.

**

I have a little habit.

At the end of each day, I will think back on the day's happenings and I will capture a snapshot which I will preserve away. It could be an image, an emotion I felt or an object which caught my attention.

Today's snapshot? During dinner time.

I was totally famished and I literally gobbled my food down. He was sitting next to me, on my right quietly eating his noodles. Then just as I finished the last piece of charsiew on my plate, he took a side glance at me and smiled sheepishly.

Oh dear, did I look horrendously unglam eating so quickly? I wondered.

I love you very much, dear.

He said as he smoothed my fly-away hair off my right cheek and looked at me so lovingly and tenderly.

I love you too.

I could have just melted there and then.

Tuesday, July 12, 2005

J'ai besoin de vacance

I don't feel too well today.

Its like my body is protesting and yelling for rest. I yawned endlessly today and was aching all over.

But its not like I don't rest enough. I get at least 8 hours of sleep a day!

Lack of exercise? Sunday golf? Albeit at the range, it's still some workout, what.

Sigh, I don't know. At times, I guess (actually I know) I am just feeling burnt out and really need a good break. The last time I took a real holiday was in Oct 2003 to Bali. That's almost 2 years ago.

I really hope I can fork out some time to go for a short holiday this year. Wouldn't mind going to Sydney or Melbourne.

We'll see.

Monday, July 11, 2005

Congrats Leroy and Tina !!

Oh boy, I can't believe one of my Jedi Knights is now officially hitched!!

(they are called my jedi knights because I had the misfortune of being labelled Darth Vader since JC days.. long story that one)

The ROM reception party was on Saturday evening. I almost teared when I hear them both say "I do" ... So surreal but nevertheless touching and so sweet!

I glad he and Tina found each other & I know they are going to be so happy together!

I think this photo was taken in 2003 in Rouge, and yeah we were all pretty much concussing. Too much alcohol that night ;D And yes, I was acting cute in my stupor. heh

Jason / Shaz / Leroy

I missed those late crazy Friday nights where we would gather at Tina's house and play Risk or Monopoly!

Hah! Those guys aren't my match man... wahahahhaha!!! ;) Who da man!!!

(those idiots hardly consider me a girl, I'm one of the guys so they say)

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My two feet are very sore now!!!

Played golf at the range just now and hit some 100 balls. My swings are still not great - lots to work on in that area.

Since I only have a club 6 (no point buying more clubs since I am still a newbie), I was happily helping myself to dear's clubs.

And guess what! I actually played better with his club 6 than my own! His clubs, being made for men are heavier and I surprised us both when I took a swing at it! So guess who is using whose clubs from now on? Hmm

Yeah! 5 good shots in a row - that's quite an achievement, considering my ratio of good shots are usually 2 out of 45 balls.. So I can proudly say I managed some good 10+ shots today! ;)

I am a happy person, très très heureuse! C'est si bon, aujourd'hui! La vie est belle!

And only also because I ate durians again today!! Whee!

Saturday, July 09, 2005

Friday the 8th

I am dead tired and I have a long day tomorrow. French class and Leroy's ROM party on a cruise in the evening!

But I just have to write this before I scoot off to lala land.

1- Interview with the recuiter went well

She will be submitting my resume to some banks. (told her no local banks, international banks please)

We'll see what happens.

2- Had a chat session with my manager

She going to put me in a project in September. This was supposed to be her baby but she's too tied down at the moment. Well, to be put in charge of a project is a start, she said.

She explained to me why she didn't put me in the new 'checker' role, and assure it is not a supervisory role.

In a nutshell, she wants me where I am now & explained she has plans to develop my career as she see potential in me..

Yawns. I am so sleepy now that I don't even want to think too much about the above.

Whatever happens, God willing.

Bon weekend everyone and my prayers go out to the people in London.

Friday, July 08, 2005

Pourquoi elle?

The Asst Manager (AM) probably sense the unhappy vibes around, especially coming from C and myself.

She spoke to us individually today. And man I am so tickled by her explanation.

Why her? Here's what she said-

1- She cannot take stress
2- She is a burden in the rest of the team if she remains in her current role
3- A checker is different from a Supervisor
4- The opportunity arises and they feel they can cater to her needs better by placing her there

S: What makes you so sure she can take the stress in the new role?
AM: checking and reconcilating reports is a very easy job

Right..... oh hang on, HOW hard can it be if you job scope is just to check reports and do zilch processing and query resolution? Hmm, guess the AM is right then.

Then the AM kept trying to convince me that appointing A as a checker is by no means a recognition of her being promoted to a supervisor.

Call me nasty or what but here's what I said -

I really do not understand the difference between a checker and a supervisor? Let me put this in an analogy. When we were in schools, our teachers checked our work to ensure they are correct. Do we not regard our teachers as being better than us in terms of the knowledge they impart to us? In our current work function, our work are checked by you to ensure they meet firm and audit requirements. And you are our AM. You won't not ask any Tom, Dick and Harry or anyone new to the department to check and reconcile the report, would you?

To the above, she continued her emphasis that checking report is easy and basically she said anyone can check other people's work?! Duh. Then she asked me if I was afraid of A checking my work?

Ha!

No, I am not afraid of anyone checking my work. My work cannot be perfect and error free all the time, but I would think that the person checking my work must possess a certain level of capability and knowledge. Otherwise, how else is she going to check my work to ensure they are done properly??

I think you are misunderstanding the difference between a checker and a supervisor, she said again and again. Then she tried to justify that she cannot afford to lose C or myself to the new role.

Well, ultimately I am not upset that it wasn't me. I am more baffled why of all people, she was chosen. This is really your call. I may accept it but I do not agree with it.

Then it was C's turn with the AM. The same stuff pretty much. Yawns.

Oh! When C ask the AM if they had thought of A answering to external audit queries in her new role (afterall, if the auditors had a query about the reports, rightfully they should go to the one signing them off, right?), guess what the AM said?

They have not considered this aspect of A's new role.

Hahaha!!!! Wow, enlightenment! Right, so who were they expecting the external auditors to go them if they had a query about the reports?

Well good luck I say. If last year's audit horror (a result of A's blabbermouth and inaccurate answers) had not taught them that A is not equipped to handle such queries, they are obviously in for some good fun when the external auditors come in October.

She tried to pacify C by telling her the same story - she cannot afford to lose C to the new role. To that, C pointed out: Is there really a need for a checker role? Where all A does is check reports and nothing else? What's the point if she cannot take out the rest of the package in that role?

And guess what, if all A is going to do is check reports, C and I are likely to be given the rest of the package - queries resolution / audit checks / back up support

So nice right, she gets the title and we do the rest of the shit which she is too stressed to do, on top of our current workload (which ONLY includes daily processing, escalation queries and training)

What kind of F*&king logic is that???????? Total bollocks and ludicrous! Absurd to the core!

Anyway the AM said she will talk to the manager tomorrow & discuss this further. Maybe they will do away with the checker role.

Right, I am sick and tired of talking about this anymore. Let me recall some happier moments of my day today :)

I organised the monthly departmental birthday celebration today. It was my manager's turn to organise and she decided to delegate this time round, to moi. This was a happy moment because the food were yummy!! Afterall I did the catering and the cake buying! ;)

Ohhh... and guess what I discovered today.

K: Dear, guess what I am doing now?
S: At the range?
K: No, I am at home..
S: Studying?
K: eh no...
S: don't know lah.. est-ce que tu fait maintenant, dit moi..
K: I am drinking Tsingtao beer!
S: huh? Wahhhhhhhh kai ki lim ah?
K: Heh, I bought them at the Cold Storage when I went to buy ingredients for dinner
S: Ooh what did you buy?
K: The usual meat balls, chicken etc.. and I bought your favourite solero!
S: Wow!!!! You the best!!
K: But guess what I found out when I came home?
S: What?
K: I found a new box of solero in the freezer!!
S: Hmm, who buy?
K: My mum!
S: Hahah.... awwwww did you find your cornetto in the freezer as well?
K: NO!
S: Hahahhah you are dead meat...... your mum loves me!!!
K: ...............

Ok I better be heading off to bed. I have an interview tomorrow!! Hope its a good one!

Thursday, July 07, 2005

Disillusioned

In a company that prides itself on its performance based culture, I was very disappointed at what was announced yesterday. It shook my belief - was it misplaced or had I been naively mistaken all these while?

You see, we are taking over a new function from overseas and this function requires a new supervisory role. So, my manager said last week.

Now there are 3 candidates for this role. For anonymity's sake, we'll label them as A, C and S.

A common trait amongst these 3 are they are currently team leaders in the existing work function. C has 10 years of experience in the firm and is a Senior Specialist by corporate rank. Both A and S are Officer (two ranks below Snr Specialist), with 4 and 2 years of service respectively.

Performance wise, C and S are better achievers and this is evident in the work entrusted to them. They are also the trainers in the department. C and S also manages the escalated enquries and literally manages the team when the Asst Manager is away.

A told C last week that she hopes C gets the new role as she believes C is the most capable. S agrees wholeheartedly. In her mind, C is the candidate with the highest calibre and it is only right that C gets it.

Little did we know that A went behind C's back to the manager and requested to be put in the new role.

Think about it.

If you were the manager, would you put A who is the least capable to manage the new function? A, the one who is never sure of her work and always double checks with C and S, who crumbles at the slightest sign of stress. A, who flees from complicated work issues because she knows not how to resolve, though thereotically you would think as a team leader, her work should by right be of a certain standard.

And when it was announced yesterday that A would take on the new role, the manager clarified that it is not a supervisory role that she is putting A in, but merely a 'checker' role where A will help to reconcile reports and check on everyone's work.

Maybe I am not getting it - can you differentiate a supervisor from a 'checker'?

I can't frankly. Where we work, the role of a 'checker' equates to a supervisor. Basically you are checking everyone's work for future audit checks. The 'checker' needs to ensure all information and work done comply to firm's and industry's regulations. And to do that, you need to obviously know your stuff inside out. Otherwise, how else to check and supervise?

I am baffled really.

I need to add in an very important point here - A who does all she can to avoid handling work queries, who secretly consults C and S for advice, is a frequent guest at the manager's office. She goes in there a few times a day for chatting apple polishing sessions.

Maybe its not right to doubt A of her capablity. She does, as a matter of factly, has great behind polishing skills. I wonder if she has that listed in her resume.

****

He thinks I am being overly upset and over reacting. Well I was literally ranting and bitching about it during our dinner.

Maybe I am, but I can't help feeling disgusted and disillusioned about how blatanly the manager and asst manager practise favouritism. It is certainly not the first time, but this time round they have done it a little overboard.

C and myself are not surprised at the outcome, though we are very disappointed. I can only imagine how much more so it is for C.

Why her?

I have half a mind to tender in my resignation yesterday. A sign of protest, perhaps?

I love my job really but to work for a manager who clearly favours people who curry her favour (hey kinda rthymes!), I don't see any development for growth.

What she told me during my mid-year review? Haha, I find it hard to believe it will materialise.

On a happier note, I submitted 8 job applications online yesterday and received a call this morning. Going for an interview tomorrow with a recruiter, 2 possible positions.

Do keep me in your prayers and send many many happy vibes my way!

Wednesday, July 06, 2005

Jughead-ified

My metabolism rate seems to be unusually high these days.

I go for dinner at 7, munch on chocolates and whatnotes non-stop till 2am while I am at work. And when I come home, I eat supper!

Been reading Archie's digest these days, I think I am starting to emphatise with Jughead!
(and I prefer Betty to Veronica anytime!)

During a teleconversation with the golf fanatic of a boyfriend, when I was at work.

S: I am hungry..
K: Don't you have a drawer full of food and snacks? Like a 7-11!
S: Sure have.. its a store and more, you know? (smirking and thinking that was corny)
K: Yeah, its a workstation
S: ..........


What can I say, my boyfriend is full of nonsense too.

Oh! Something hilarious to share! ;) I didn't come up with that, wonder who did!

1. Men are like ......Laxatives ....... They irritate the shit out of you.
2. Men are like .....Bananas ...... The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like ....Weather ..... Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like ........Blenders .... You need one, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like ....Chocolate Bars .. Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like ...Commercials ...... You can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like ....Department Stores ...... Their clothes are always 1/2 off.
8. Men are like ........Government Bonds ...... They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like ......Mascara .. They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like .......Popcorn ..... They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like ....Lava Lamps .... Fun to look at, but not very bright.
12. Men are like ....Parking Spots ....... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.

Image hosted by Photobucket.comMy contribution..

13. Men are like ... Golf ... They require a lot of attention and concentration.

Tuesday, July 05, 2005

D is for Durian

Behold the King of the Fruit!!!



Love it or hate it? There's really no in-betweens!

I looooooovvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeee it!! ;)

Monday, July 04, 2005

Mindless rambling

I went for French Class yesterday.

- Lesson 1 of the new session
- Felt like crap cause I don't feel equipped adequate
- Resolved to put in more hours to French studying

I played golf today

- Only 3-4 good shots out of 50 balls
- Bumped into my godfather at the range
- He seems to think dear played very well
- Dear is quite in top form today, managed lots of lovely long shots

I learnt how to pick good durians today

- Went with his folks to their usual durian stall
- Learnt the tricks from uncle on picking good durians
- Must be dry and firm, watery ones are not good
- Bought some back for the family
- Mum loves it

I am going to ...

a) drink some salt water, too much durian just now
b) study a bit of French
c) give thanks
d) message massage my ankles

And I want to go to Borders tomorrow, only because I have $100 gift voucher to use.

Friday, July 01, 2005

Yester-me

I was looking at an old CD with some photos of my yesteryears.
(Ok maybe not so ancient, about 2-3 years ago)

Taken in late 2002

When the tresses were still glossy black and short ;)





Taken in mid 2003

If you look carefully, you'll see the braces :) I had them for about a year I think.
And yeah the hair was still black.



When I have the time, I'll post up my baby and childhood photos.

Those would require some manual scanning and I'm too sleepy for that now! :)