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C'est la vie: Sammy boy

Wednesday, August 04, 2004

Sammy boy

It was a crazy day at work. I am very drained and exhausted. And because I didn't sleep well last night, I had a splitting headache for most part of the day. eeks.

We had our monthly birthday celebration at work today and there was too much food again. Love the icecream cake though :)~

hmm.

Ever wonder if a guy and a girl can be good friends without crossing the romantic boundaries? Platonic relationships, possible? Myth or reality? I was telling some colleagues at work that I miss Sam (our ex colleague) who has moved over to our London office recently. Sam was not just a colleague to me.. he was a friend, my mate.. and a member of the Office Spammies! The name because we would spam one another like mad using office emails ala instant messenger style. Haha! There were 5 of us in the clique (2 dudes and 3 dudettes) and gosh we are so full of nonsense whenever we are together. The in/famous five we are :)

To cut the story short, Sam and I were the remaining 2 left after the other 3 abandoned us for greener pastures. I guess because we had similar wavelength, we got along really well and people noticed. After he left, I really miss subjecting him to my verbal abuse. lol. Anyways, those colleagues were commenting how Sam and I would look good together blah blah blah. Without dwelling too much on it, I simply commented that Sam and I are great friends and platonic relationships do exist. I love Sam to bits but not in that romantic sort, makes sense?

anyways.

It got me thinking about my relationships with the guys around me. I have no lack of male companionship and I am blessed with good guy friends. However, I do not see these dudes as potential bf/ husband material. To me, they are simply my friends who happen to be of the weaker sex. haha! And moreover most of these guys see me like a brother / bother / crazy girl ! I can be quite a nutter at times. I behave very vely differently when I am with a guy I like in a romantic sense. I can be very sacharine sweet if I want to. Pooey, I feel disgusted even saying that.

so, hence.

If you happen to be one of my good guy friends (you know who you are) reading this, hello! bonjour! :) And no worries, you are safe from my evil clutches.

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