Sammy boy
It was a crazy day at work. I am very drained and exhausted. And because I didn't sleep well last night, I had a splitting headache for most part of the day. eeks.
We had our monthly birthday celebration at work today and there was too much food again. Love the icecream cake though :)~
hmm.
Ever wonder if a guy and a girl can be good friends without crossing the romantic boundaries? Platonic relationships, possible? Myth or reality? I was telling some colleagues at work that I miss Sam (our ex colleague) who has moved over to our London office recently. Sam was not just a colleague to me.. he was a friend, my mate.. and a member of the Office Spammies! The name because we would spam one another like mad using office emails ala instant messenger style. Haha! There were 5 of us in the clique (2 dudes and 3 dudettes) and gosh we are so full of nonsense whenever we are together. The in/famous five we are :)
To cut the story short, Sam and I were the remaining 2 left after the other 3 abandoned us for greener pastures. I guess because we had similar wavelength, we got along really well and people noticed. After he left, I really miss subjecting him to my verbal abuse. lol. Anyways, those colleagues were commenting how Sam and I would look good together blah blah blah. Without dwelling too much on it, I simply commented that Sam and I are great friends and platonic relationships do exist. I love Sam to bits but not in that romantic sort, makes sense?
anyways.
It got me thinking about my relationships with the guys around me. I have no lack of male companionship and I am blessed with good guy friends. However, I do not see these dudes as potential bf/ husband material. To me, they are simply my friends who happen to be of the weaker sex. haha! And moreover most of these guys see me like a brother / bother / crazy girl ! I can be quite a nutter at times. I behave very vely differently when I am with a guy I like in a romantic sense. I can be very sacharine sweet if I want to. Pooey, I feel disgusted even saying that.
so, hence.
If you happen to be one of my good guy friends (you know who you are) reading this, hello! bonjour! :) And no worries, you are safe from my evil clutches.
We had our monthly birthday celebration at work today and there was too much food again. Love the icecream cake though :)~
hmm.
Ever wonder if a guy and a girl can be good friends without crossing the romantic boundaries? Platonic relationships, possible? Myth or reality? I was telling some colleagues at work that I miss Sam (our ex colleague) who has moved over to our London office recently. Sam was not just a colleague to me.. he was a friend, my mate.. and a member of the Office Spammies! The name because we would spam one another like mad using office emails ala instant messenger style. Haha! There were 5 of us in the clique (2 dudes and 3 dudettes) and gosh we are so full of nonsense whenever we are together. The in/famous five we are :)
To cut the story short, Sam and I were the remaining 2 left after the other 3 abandoned us for greener pastures. I guess because we had similar wavelength, we got along really well and people noticed. After he left, I really miss subjecting him to my verbal abuse. lol. Anyways, those colleagues were commenting how Sam and I would look good together blah blah blah. Without dwelling too much on it, I simply commented that Sam and I are great friends and platonic relationships do exist. I love Sam to bits but not in that romantic sort, makes sense?
anyways.
It got me thinking about my relationships with the guys around me. I have no lack of male companionship and I am blessed with good guy friends. However, I do not see these dudes as potential bf/ husband material. To me, they are simply my friends who happen to be of the weaker sex. haha! And moreover most of these guys see me like a brother / bother / crazy girl ! I can be quite a nutter at times. I behave very vely differently when I am with a guy I like in a romantic sense. I can be very sacharine sweet if I want to. Pooey, I feel disgusted even saying that.
so, hence.
If you happen to be one of my good guy friends (you know who you are) reading this, hello! bonjour! :) And no worries, you are safe from my evil clutches.
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